Relationships move. Stay in step.
A private app that suggests small, personal ways to care for your partner, every day.
It's the little things
Strong relationships aren't built in a single moment. They're shaped by the small things we do every day.
Cheramor is a quiet companion for your relationship. You write privately about what's on your mind, and Cheramor, drawing on relationship research and AI, suggests small, specific things you can do for your partner.
Sometimes it's a kind word. Sometimes it's a thoughtful gesture, a shared experience, or simply being present when it matters.
Love isn't just something you feel. It's something you do. There are no streaks, no scores and no grades for your relationship, and no expectation of getting something back. Trying something is what counts, whatever happens next.
Use Cheramor on your own or invite your partner. If you both use it, you can link your accounts, and each of you keeps your own private space.
Cheramor isn't therapy and doesn't replace it. When something needs more than everyday care, it points you toward people who can help.
How Cheramor works
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Write freely
Your journal and Tell Me Anything are a private place to put down what's on your mind, in your own words.
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Your Daily Something
A small, specific idea for your partner, chosen to fit what you've shared and what feels like you.
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Did you try it?
Later, Cheramor asks whether you tried it, not whether it worked. Your answer helps the next ideas fit better.
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Better together
Invite your partner with a code. Once you're linked, each of you gets ideas shaped by what you've both shared, while your words stay private.
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Ideas that grow with you
The more you write, and the more you tell Cheramor which ideas felt right, the more closely its suggestions can fit your relationship. If you and your partner are linked, what each of you writes can also help shape ideas that fit the other a little better, always within your sharing choices and never by sharing your words.
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Conflict Coach
When a disagreement is on your mind, think it through privately with the coach. If you both agree, you can also see each other's side.
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Support when it matters
If something you write suggests you need more than everyday care, Cheramor gently points you to people who can help.
See how it works




Screens from the app in testing. Sam and Jordan are fictional.
Not a therapist. A daily companion.
A great therapist is like a personal trainer or a music teacher. They guide you, push you, and help you see what you can't see on your own. But much of the growth happens in between sessions, in the small choices you make each day.
Cheramor is there for those everyday moments. It works alongside professional support, not in place of it. If you're going through something serious, a licensed therapist is the right next step, and our Resources page can help.
Built on trust. Designed for privacy.
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Your thoughts stay private
Your partner never sees your journal, your entries or your survey answers, not in full, not in part, not in other words.
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Ideas, never reports
When your accounts are linked, what you write may help shape the general ideas your partner receives, but only within the sharing preferences you choose. Ideas come from Cheramor's own library and are never shown as coming from you. Cheramor also sends ideas just because, so an idea arriving gives nothing away.
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Work through it together
Conflict Coach gives you both a way to be heard. Each of you approves a version of your side that Cheramor's AI writes without blame. Your partner sees only that version, never what you typed. Sharing is opt-in: one disagreement at a time, only if you both agree. It's the only place anything you write is shared.
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No ads, no selling
We never sell your information, and what you write is never used for advertising. AI helps Cheramor understand what you write, suggest ideas that fit, and recognize when extra support may help.
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You're in control
Manage your privacy preferences, download a copy of your data, or delete your account in the app's settings at any time.
Something meaningful is coming
Cheramor is in a small private test right now. We're building it with a simple purpose: helping people care for their relationships in small, everyday ways.
Questions? Write to support@cheramor.com.